
Hamlet Police Officer Michael Veach enlists the help of his 13-month-old son Jake in demonstrating the proper use of a car seat at FirstHealth Richmond Memorial Hospital’s Pregnancy Fair Tuesday night.
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No topic was off limits for the new and expectant mothers who attended FirstHealth Richmond Memorial Hospital’s Pregnancy Fair Tuesday night.
From breast feeding to birth certificates to baby regularity, experts provided answers for the kind of questions that matter to anyone with an infant.
“I came to brush up,” said Lynn Wallace of Norman, a mother of two who is now expecting another child. “My youngest is four so it’s been a while.”
Local medical professionals provided demonstrations and gave interactive lectures on labor pain management, baby nutrition, child safety, health department resources, proper diapering and swaddling techniques, what to expect during the delivery process and when to call a doctor.
“Childbirth defines us as women,” said Registered Nurse Ann Beth Simmons. “We carry it with us our whole lives. If things don’t go as planned, or like you saw on TV, or how your mama told you it would go, you carry that experience with you.”
The overall goal in each presentation was to simplify the whole process. For some mothers, that meant clearing up the kind of details that have the potential to turn into afterthoughts and inconvenient surprises.
“I came to learn about breastfeeding,” said Tami Smith, a mother of two twin girls who is getting ready to have a son. “But the main thing I’ve learned is that they don’t circumcise (right after delivery) at the hospital. You have to wait two weeks, and insurance doesn’t always cover it.”
Another young mother, Kandi Holmes, joined the conversation when she heard Smith speaking her language.
“Medicaid doesn’t cover it either,” said Holmes, now pregnant with her second son. “I’ve been saving up my money ever since I found out what I was having.”
The relatively balanced demographic of veterans and first-timers proved useful for networking, peer learning and encouragement.
“I learned a lot about breast feeding,” said Angela Leak of Ellerbe, who is pregnant with her third child. “I plan on doing it this time.”
Some mothers left with door prizes and, hopefully, fewer worries.
“Once you get here to deliver, you’re excited and you have family visiting and everything gets a little more hectic,” said FirstHealth Outreach Manager Amy Hamilton while planning for the event. “If you’re a first time mom, and especially sometimes with the younger teen moms, its a good experience to see someone demonstrate what needs to happen,”
You sound very defensive. I suppose you made the choice to have your son circumcised and to formula feed your child. I guess you must feel a little guilty or something, otherwise why would you be so defensive?
You are totally right. A few women can not breastfeed due to medication but most women can. The comment was made in regards to the general population. Most women aren't on meds that are contraindicated for breastfeeding.
So you are correct - choosing to formula feed and choosing to circumcise IS a choice, it's just not the choice that is in the best interest of the child in the majority of the cases.
Sorry, I'm not on any high horse, just calling it like it is. The truth hurts. Even the Academy of Pediatrics agree that babies don't need to be circumcised and that babies benefit from being breastfed. The World Health Organization agrees as well. Research it.
And as a taxpayer who pays in far more than most people, I shouldn't have to fund cosmetic surgery on your child's private parts. It's a sad state of affairs when a parent has to make a $20/month "payment plan" for non-medically essential surgery. That money would be better spent on saving for the kids college fund so he need not be on state assistance.
Have a lovely day!
IT's a choice. If they have the money to have it done then so be it. A pediatrician will do it for $200 or so which means for little more than $20 a month they will have the money together. It takes more than $20 for them to live. And maybe they have researched. GET OFF YOUR HIGH ROPE OR HORSE. Breastfeeding is great but some can not breast feed due to medications they are on. You make decisions for your life.
And have any of these parents actually researched the potential risks of circumcision? My nephew almost bled to death after getting one 8 years ago. There is a reason hospitals don't want to do the circumcisions anymore - they are too risky. Parents should search for an online video of one. It's really disturbing to see any child being put through that.
It's excellent that this class promotes breastfeeding and gives these moms the tools to be successful at it. It's great for baby and it saves money on formula. It's a win-win situation.